COSTAS
AND PANAYIOTA
public housing for 19 years. They are both 75 years of age.
Costas
and Penny were both born in Cyprus. Cyprus is an international
country. Many people from Turkey, Greece, Lebanon, Syria and Israel
have
settled there.
Cyprus
is a very scenic island. Millions of tourists visit Cyprus every
year.
Costas
urges you to visit his beautiful country one day.
Costas
grew up in the city of Pafos. He comes from a family of seven
children. Costas’ father served in the army and later worked in
local
government in an administrative position. His mother was busy
at home
raising the children. Costas left school at 12 to become a
painter, plumber,
carpenter; in short a “Jack of all Trades.”
Costas
comes from a Greek Orthodox family. In his family there is a long
tradition of at least one child of each generation growing up and
becoming a
priest.
Costas
and Penny married in 1951.
Penny
grew up in a village near Pafos. She also comes from a big family.
She has seven brothers and sisters; all of them are still alive. The
family
lived in a home without gas or electricity. Light was provided
by kerosene
lamps and the food was cooked on wood fires.
Their
marriage was arranged by relatives on both sides. Costas jokes that
it
was Penny who chased him and gave him their first kiss.
Together
they have ten children.
After
they married, Costas worked in the kitchens on a British army base on
the Suez Canal. This meant that he was separated from Penny but he
sent
money back to her regularly. When other work became available,
he was
able to return to his family in Cyprus. In 1967 the family
moved to Limasol
where Costas worked as a house painter and carpenter
on a British airforce
base. It was a very large base, almost a small
town, with many houses to
accommodate the airforce personnel and
their families. The base had its
own school and hospital.
Imagine
how hard Penny worked raising a brood of ten.
Costas
remembers how difficult it was to make ends meet financially.
All
those children to feed, clothe, and put through school. Costas is
very
proud that he provided for them all.
“In
those days” he says, “children respected their parents and obeyed
them.
Today they don’t do as they are told and they even swear at
their mother
and father.”
All
ten children grew up and married.
Costas
and Penny now have 35 grandchildren and 15 great-grandchildren!
They
are living in Australia, Cyprus and San Francisco.
The
couple came to Australia in 1987. For a year they lived with one of
their daughters. Then they moved into their public housing flat on
the
Princes Hill Estate.
Their
flat is very comfortable; full of plants, religious icons and
photographs.
Costas
keeps himself busy making furniture or fixing things around the flat.
It’s only a small flat and Penny is very long-suffering when Costas
is busy
working on one of his projects on the kitchen table. With his
hacksaw,
hammer and nails he creates a lot of wood-shavings and dust.
Penny
just rolls her eyes and laughs.She
is a strong motherly woman with a
warm hug and a dry sense of humour.
warm hug and a dry sense of humour.
Costas
and Penny believe in good nutrition. They go to the Victoria Market
every fortnight and come home with lots of fresh fruit and
vegetables, meat
and fish. They don't eat take-away food. Costas says
that if you try one of
his hamburgers you’ll never eat McDonalds
again. They both love cooking
and often cook together. Penny bakes
all her own bread. Costas enjoys
making cakes. They are his
speciality. Over the years, whenever there has
been a birthday
celebration, Costas has made the birthday cakes for their
children,
grandchildren and great-grandchildren. It’s a family tradition
which began in Cyprus and has continued in Australia. That’s
a LOT of birthday cakes!
They
both believe strongly in the tradition of marriage. Theirs has been a
long and happy marriage, though, of course, even happily married
people
fight sometimes.
They
both like Australia very much.
Living
in their Public Housing flat has been good, but they have missed
having a garden to potter about in, and Costas a shed for his
woodwork.
“Over
the years we’ve tried to be good neighbours. We are friendly. We
mind our own business. We don’t make trouble for others.”
They
have both enjoyed good health throughout their lives. Costas has
always been a robust man but these days he feels himself slowing
down. He
can no longer manage the stairs like he used to. Penny
has health
problems and they feel that it is time for them to
leave Australia and to
spend the rest of their days living with
family back in Cyprus.
They
will be missed by their friends and neighbours on the estate.